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| Pride? | |
| Dignity? | |
| Face? | |
| Win or Defeat? |
All these are not important;
What is the most important is still the one you love,
What is the most important is still the affection you both struggled so hard to get.
Basically in love, no matter it is quarrel or conflict, as long as there is ultimate harmony and resolution, there is no winner or loser.
If one insists in fighting to see who win or who lose, who gain face or who grovel, the affection will be the ultimate sacrifice, and there will be no winner.
[ * In reality, both sides suffer great losses.* ]
Have you ever thought about the purpose of an argument?
In fact, it is not purely over principle or reasoning, but about your opponent refusing to let you win, both male and female being the same. Therefore, in the end, argument has already been deviated from the main subject, both of you just argue for the sake of having the last word.
Just to have the last word, the price to pay is beyond estimation.
You will only realise that once you have made up.
Such a waste of tears, such a waste of effort, what’s this for? Or does it deserve?
When one is angry, one will use all kinds of malicious words, and commit all sorts of vicious acts.
However, when lovers are angry with each other, they must maintain their warm feelings, wait and see if you notice or not, wait and see if you understand and trust him or not.
It is extremely hard not to say offensive words or to act in a harmful way when one is angry. However, one must at least be able to learn how to retreat and be submissive, and to be able to sense the warm feelings that originally existed between both of you.
It is not really mind boggling, in fact, one just needs to have a little bit of heart, where there is love, all matters can be discussed, however, average people cannot easily realise this, nor can they utilize this principle.
It is hoped that everyone is able to treasure any kind of love by fate that they have, not just in romance.
I remember that there is a saying:
‘With countless types of medicine in the world, there is just no such medicine for regrets.’
It’s true! Regret is fruitless... it’s better to encourage each other...
By all means, do not gamble away a genuine relationship, as that is definitely not worth it.
There are no problems that cannot be resolved, only there are those who do not wish to face them.
