All of us were in an uproar after hearing such nonsense words except Rinpoche who was having a light smile (which told us to take it easy) instead. He then gave us a discourse by means of an analogy, “One day, senior fellow Dharma-brother left the Centre with two siblings (brothers). As soon as they turned left from the main street, they came across an utterly disgusting guy who was staring at senior fellow Dharma-brother with his eyes wide open (i.e. in a rude way). Failing to beside himself, senior fellow Dharma-brother, who was flared up with anger for no reason at all, surged quickly towards the guy and pushed him over onto the ground without saying anything further. The two siblings also acted so cooperatively that they ran immediately towards the guy and clasped him tightly. They then punched and kicked the guy together until he was unable to move, but fell lying by the side of the pavement.
Meanwhile, senior fellow Dharma-brother saw an old woman whom was tottering unsteadily was about to step on a zebra-crossing to cross the road. The two siblings caught sight of her simultaneously. The three of them dashed ahead towards the old woman right away regardless of their own safety so as to stop her (from crossing the road). They told her after that,
“Don’t cross the road now, granny! Look, the cars are coming!”
The old woman nodded her head gratefully and said, “Oh, I see! I see!”
The two siblings each held and supported the two shoulders of the old woman separately to move her across the road like carrying a sedan chair. At the same time, senior fellow Dharma-brother was walking in front of them swaggeringly to make way.
They were highly praised by the old woman, “You three are really very good!”
Senior fellow Dharma-brother said to the old woman, “Thank you. Don’t mention it. We’d just like to make a balance (counterbalance) only.”

The old woman was completely confused and asked, “What do you want to balance with?”
Senior fellow Dharma-brother pointed at a shop of Villa Apricot over there and said, “Granny, please take a look at the guy who is lying on the side of the pavement over there.”
Glimpsing towards (the location as instructed), the old woman exclaimed, “Oh, no! He’s vomiting blood.”
Senior fellow Dharma-brother went on, “Ah, yes. At first, we just intended to give the guy a slight lesson by hitting him a few punches. However, we’ve unknowingly struck him too forcefully than expected that he is now in such a condition. At the meantime, we help you cross the road hoping that we can at least do something good to balance with the wrong act we’ve just done!”
The old woman said angrily, “I think you three are suffering from mental disorder!”
The three of them spoke in one voice, “Granny, we’re not crazy. We’ve been learning Buddhism for thirty years.”
The old woman was even more maddening that she yelled out loudly, “Wow! Having learnt Buddhism for thirty years, you’re still having such a concept as before?!  Presuming that helping me to cross the road can counterbalance part of the wrongdoings done, you three had better go and be admitted to Castle Peak Hospital (a hospital in Hong Kong which specializes in providing psychiatric services)!”